So you're going home for the holidays. But home is where you reunite annually with the person or persons that abused, misused, and/or manipulated you. This blog is for you! A few things to consider if you're going home and home is where the perpetrator(s) is. 1. It's ok not to go. If you decide at the last minute or very early on that you are safer where you are and you can, then stay put. 2. You survived and other people may not think that is a reason to celebrate but we cel